No relationship is perfect, but most of us are doing our best with juggling work, family, hobbies, and our loved ones. That’s why vacations are great for reconnection and grounding. Here are a few tips to making the most out of your next vacation with your partner.

Set a Budget

Finances are often a strife that drive people apart. Don’t let that ruin your getaway by planning ahead and agreeing on a boundary that satisfies both of your needs. Anticipate wiggle room for emergencies, or that chance you find something perfect in a gift shop.

Plan Ahead

Planning ahead may sound trivial, but you would be surprised as each weekend approaches, many people are turned away for those who didn’t plan in time and find we are completely booked on our sailing tours. Make the most of your time by securing your spot on tours. Take advantage of deals, and arrive stress-free knowing you’re going to have a great time.

Set Boundaries

Set boundaries with work, family, and even each other. Don’t answer work emails and phone calls. If you leave the kids at home, try to remind them that as parents you need alone time, and to make the most of their time with Grandma. Leave your worries and troubles behind for just a little bit to enjoy each other. That also might mean agreeing to not bring up troubling conversations about work, stress, and worries.

Remember Why You’re There

Don’t forget why you’re spending time in a new city with your partner. Don’t forget to unwind. Don’t forget to tell them you love them. Don’t forget to smile, dance, and kiss. Maybe you’ve been married for many years or you’re just dating, but everyone enjoys a little reassurance and romance even if they know they’re here for the long run.